Do you sometimes feel like your life is going nowhere? That nothing is happening? Do you feel Stuck?
“Stuck” is a concept that doesn’t exist in the Universe.
Why? Because the Universe is always moving and changing.
For example, time never stops ticking, every second some of our old skin cells are shed and new cells grow. With every inhale, we breathe in different air molecules, and our very constituent atoms never stop vibrating.
As the famous Buddhist saying goes,
“ The only constant thing in life is chang e.”
Why then do we feel stuck?
We feel stuck because we aren’t seeing the results that we want, because things are happening as speedily as we desire.
But this impatience, this need for instant gratification derived from immediate results, this stems from our own ego. Deep down inside all of us, we have this subconscious belief that we can control the way our life goes, if we take enough actions.
And so we busy ourselves doing this, doing that, but never looking within us to see if it’s the internal blocks that the true saboteurs of our success.
For example, if we have a deep-seated belief from childhood or past lives that money is the root of all evil, that we can only become rich by being unethical and we don’t want to be immoral, then even if money does come our way, our subconscious belief will cause us to reject this wealth. Whether by feeling overwhelmed with too much work, or disgust with the source of revenue, leading us to ultimately turn away the revenue stream.
Another example would be we constantly seek a committed relationship, yet due to childhood traumas derived from witnessing constant heated arguments between parents, we are actually phobic to commitment because we fear that the relationship will eventually become the disaster that has already been imprinted into our minds since childhood. What happens then is that if any partner seeks commitment from us, we will turn him/her away out of disbelief in his/her faithfulness to us because our own inner fears will arise.
Therefore before we blame God or the Universe for leaving us “stuck”, we need to first dig within ourselves to uncover and heal the shadows and traumas that are the real obstacles holding us back.
And when we have prepared ourselves inside out for the positive changes to occur, that’s when our life will start to move in the direction that we wished for.
What is more, when we are healed, every pause becomes an opportunity for us to dig deeper, heal more, and gain greater inner peace. When we achieve that inner serenity, we will appreciate every pause as an opportunity to rest, rejuvenate and improve ourselves, rather than seeing the situation as being “stuck”.
So get rid of the concept of “stuck”, because life is never stuck. And it is this self-limiting belief that causes us to block our success, because our minds are telling the universe that we are stuck, and so this is what manifests.
Instead of telling ourselves that we are “stuck”, try replacing that self-constraining thought with:-
“ I am aligning with what is meant for me. Please help me to be prepared for what is already coming my way. I know that what is meant for me will never pass me by.”
Then see the clarity on what we need to do next unfold miraculously…
