If Money Were a Person, How Would It Describe Your Relationship?

Imagine for a moment that money is a living, breathing entity…not just a pile of paper or numbers in your bank account, but an actual being with feelings, desires, and a voice of its own.

Now, let’s take that further: If money could talk, what would it say about you and your relationship with it?

Would it describe that relationship as one of trust, respect, and appreciation? Or would it say that it feels ignored, resented, mistrusted, feared, or even manipulated?

The Hidden Energy Behind Your Money Story

Most people don’t realize this, but money isn’t just currency; it’s energy. Just like love, joy, and confidence, money carries a vibration. And just like any relationship in your life, the energy you bring to it directly impacts how it responds to you.

But here’s the truth most people avoid: your money struggles aren’t just about numbers or habits. They are rooted in deep-seated wounds, limiting beliefs, and past traumas that have shaped how you feel about money at a subconscious level.

Think about it. If you constantly worry about money, obsess over where it’s coming from, or feel guilty when you receive it, it’s not just because of your external circumstances. It’s because, somewhere along the way, you learned that money is  untrustworthy, scarce, or even dangerous.

Maybe you grew up hearing that  money is the root of all evil.  Maybe you watched your parents fight over it. Maybe you were taught that rich people are greedy or that wanting money makes you selfish. Maybe past financial hardships left you feeling powerless, ashamed, or unworthy of wealth.

And what if these beliefs didn’t just start in this lifetime?

Past-Life Blocks Keeping Are Also Keeping You Stuck

Sometimes, the deepest money wounds aren’t even from this life; they’re carried over from past lives.

• You may have taken a vow of poverty in a past life , believing that wealth was incompatible with spiritual growth. Now, in this lifetime, you unconsciously push money away because, deep down, you still associate it with corruption or spiritual failure.
• You may have been punished for wealth in a past life,  perhaps as a merchant accused of dishonesty or a healer persecuted for accepting payment. This can create a lingering fear that having money makes you a target for criticism, betrayal, or even danger.
• You may have lost everything in a past life , whether through war, theft, or disaster, leaving an imprint of deep financial insecurity that follows you into this life, making it hard to trust money will ever stay.

And just like any trauma, those past-life wounds create patterns that repeat themselves over and over.

What happens when you don’t trust someone? You micromanage them. You doubt them. You push them away. You create tension. And in response, they pull away too.

Money is no different. When you treat it with anxiety, guilt, or frustration, it doesn’t want to stick around. It finds someone else who treats it better.

Rewriting Your Money Relationship

Now, let’s flip this perspective. What if you started treating money like a cherished, trustworthy partner?

• What if you appreciated it every time it showed up?
• What if you spoke kindly about it instead of constantly complaining?
• What if you trusted that it always had your back?

But let’s be clear: shifting your energy around money isn’t just about ‘thinking positive.’ It’s about healing the deep-rooted limiting beliefs and past experiences that have shaped your relationship with money in the first place.

This means:

• Identifying and clearing all of your money blocks that are running the show  (fear of success, guilt around wealth, shame from past financial mistakes, or past-life vows and traumas)
• Clearing the emotional wounds tied to money  (childhood programming, ancestral trauma, or past-life money blocks)
• Calming and aligning your nervous system  so that holding more money feels safe, supportive, and abundant

Because here’s the kicker: Money wants to love you back.

But here’s where most people get it wrong. They think,  “I’ll start trusting money once I have enough of it.”  Nope. That’s like saying,  “I’ll trust my partner once they prove themselves.”  See the flaw in that thinking?

Trust is the precursor, not the reward.

You don’t attract more money by waiting to feel safe. You attract more money by healing the wounds and clearing the blocks so you can begin to trust, to appreciate, and to respect money  now,  before it gives you proof. And when you do, money will start responding differently. It will show up more consistently. It will flow with ease. It will  stick around  instead of vanishing the moment it arrives.

The Power of Healing and Speaking Money’s Love Language

Here’s something most people never consider: Money has a love language. And if you want to attract and keep more of it, you need to start speaking it fluently.

Money’s love language?  Gratitude, trust, and respect.

• Gratitude:  Celebrate every dollar that comes in, no matter how small. Stop focusing on what you  don’t  have and start appreciating what you  do .
• Trust:  Stop treating money like a flaky friend who might disappear. Trust that it’s always there for you and that more is always on its way.
• Respect:  Manage your money with care. Make empowered financial decisions. Stop saying things like  “I’m so broke”  or  “Money is so hard to make”  because words create reality.

But remember, this isn’t about  forcing  a new mindset. It’s about  healing  at the root. Because once you clear the fear, guilt, and trauma around money, treating it with trust and gratitude becomes  natural,  not just another mindset trick.

What Would You Say to Money Right Now?

Would you apologize for the way you’ve treated it in the past? Would you express gratitude for what it’s done for you? Would you promise to start showing up differently?

This is your invitation to have that conversation. Shift your perspective, heal your money wounds, and start building a relationship with money that feels empowering, expansive, and deeply aligned.

Because at the end of the day, your money wants to love you.

Are you ready to let it? If so, you can begin by scheduling a complimentary 20-minute Money Blocks clarity call with me. CLICK HERE to book your session.